Sunday, March 25, 2012

How to improve your relationship

How to improve your relationship

How to Improve Your Relationships

Author: The Relationship Blog

When the spark in your relationship appears to dim, it's time to take action, before things turn rotten. The problem is that most people don't appreciate that good relationships don't just appear out of thin air. They need to be worked at. It takes a lot of effort for a couple to be blissfully happy and content for ten years or more.

Don't blame your partner
One of the major problems when relationships go south is that the people in couples tend to blame each other, or even worse, blame themselves. Halt this rubbish right now. The fact is, it takes two of you to play up, and if there is a fault with your relationship, it's because of both of you.

Make more effort
One of the worst facts of life is that partners, after spending a few years together, rarely make an effort when it comes to how they look. This can have a bad effect on any relationship. If the woman doesn't bother with her appearance any more, the man is going to notice – and the same is true if the man doesn't bother changing from his work dress in the evening, or if he doesn't shave. It seems like you don't care – not very inspiring for a healthy relationship! So make an effort to dress up – you'll be stunned how much of a difference it can make!

Make time for each other
Aside from blaming people, you need to create time to rekindle things. Obviously, both of you have tight schedules, but unless you can find time to see each other, for the two of you, your problems are unlikely to get better. Set some time aside, at least twice a week, when you and your partner can enjoy some private time together with no distractions.

Spend time together
Socializing as a couple, with other people, is a brilliant way to better your relationship. Make sure you have a regular meeting with some old friends, either at yours, at their place, or somewhere else. Seeing old friends, you'll have a fun time and it will help you to feel happy again!

Work on your love life
One of the biggest causes of relationship problems is due to the "sex factor". It's an interesting fact that many married and/or long term couples rarely have great sex lives. This can be a major cause of relationship issues, or it can happen as a result of these troubles. Do something to add some spice to your loves lives, such as going out for a candlelit meal to get you in the mood, or do something more extreme to spice things up, such as buying some sex toys, watching x-movies etc etc. If it comes to it, even consider seeing a sex counselor. Sex is a big part of any relationship, and if you don't work on this then your problems are unlikely to go away.

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