Learning the skills of communication within a couple allows both partners to state their case, or talk without interruption or judgement. Being a good communicator is not just about choosing the right words and winning the argument. It is about listening to the other person and responding appropriately. Effective communication allows both partners to express their needs.
When talking with your partner, make eye contact. This is important. It lets them know that you are listening. Don't interrupt them when they are speaking. You will get your turn :-) When you interrupt them constantly, you are basically telling them that what they are saying is not important. Pay attention. Let them know that you are listening and that you care about what they have to say. That doesn't mean you have to agree (but again, you will have your turn to state your opinions). Remember, they need to know that their opinions or ideas are important to. Sometimes, they just need to talk and just need you to listen.
Lack of communication is one of the leading causes of relationship failure. Communication in a relationship is essential (especially when it is an idea or issue that will affect both of you). Communication and consideration can make or break a relationship.
Even partners who communicate can have problems when it comes to discussing intimacy . Great bedroom communication by using verbal and physical skills to help your partner understand what you need.
Good communication skills are the foundation of all relationships and particularly romantic ones. Misunderstandings,crossed signals and hurt feelings abound when communication is lacking or non-existent.
Monday, January 30, 2012
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