Intimacy matters in a relationship- Understanding and Accepting Sex

Sex is a fundamental part of womanhood. Throughout life, sex is the driving force that creates energy, life and attraction all around us. Why do you think sex sells (Harsh but true)? To deny our ties to sexuality and intimacy and our own needs for sexual fulfilment is to deny our existence. Sex is how we were created and how we recreate. It is a natural part of life. Understanding and accepting your sexuality will lead you to pleasure, confidence and a more fulfilling relationship with your partner.

If you understand this concept, you can accept your intimate feelings and are able to better express yourself in that area to your partner. More importantly, it makes you feel good about yourself.

Even though it is used to sell everything from chocolate and ice cream to cars and aftershave, this generation is less likely than previous generations to be adventurous. There are too many sexually transmitted diseases out there nowadays. There are too many stereotypes.

Throughout your lifetime and your relationship with your partner, your intimacy needs change. A new baby, a new job or a new partner can change your intimacy desires considerably.

You can't have a fulfilling intimate life if you don't understand and accept your own sexuality. Stay in touch with your partner by talking, touching and kissing. Talk openly and honestly about your intimate needs and desires. Take time for each other, have fun with it and most of all, ENJOY being physically close. Don't let the fear of change hold you back. Having a healthy intimate relationship with your parter is vital to your emotional and physical well being. The intimacy part of your relationship is very important. I know alot of people say that sex shouldn't really be that important in a relationship. That's a lie!! Fact of life, it is important and it is definately an area that you should focus on and put effort into if you really want to have a "good relationship"

What is a good relationship
Here is the link to one of the first posts on exactly what a good relationship is