What men crave in women
1. A Man Wants Someone He Can
Sounds simple right? Actually,
what it means might be different from what you may think. It means a man wants
someone that will remain loyal to him. It does not refer to monogamy, although
that is certainly important, and a given.
A man measures trust by what a woman does when she has
the chance to embarrass or to hurt him. After a man gives a woman his heart, he
wonders what she will do with that power. Does she pay attention to the fact
that he doesn't like to be called certain names - even playfully? Has she
observed that even though he likes to be the "life of the party," he is actually
pretty self conscious about what people think of him?
In his mind, as the woman in his life you will get to
see a vulnerable side of him that others don't. When he dates you, and
especially when he marries you, he wants to know that your allegiance is to him.
Even though he may deserve to be ridiculed at times, he wants to know you understand him so intimately that you can put him
in his place (respectfully) with just a look. In his mind, this is very
2. Men crave a woman that is easy to
pleaseMany individuals misunderstand
this statement by assuming that a woman that is considered “easy to please” goes
along with everything. Not true. It doesn't matter if you have a tendency to
be picky or to be carefree, as long as you don't expect a man to read your
mind. Remember, he is not one of your girlfriends, and even though there are
times when it seems he can read your mind, those times are usually the
exception, not the rule.
are pleased with something, don't just express your pleasure verbally, include a
positive emotional response as well (i.e., smile, hug him, laugh, etc.). Even
though you may "tell him" what you like, that won't have nearly the impact on
him as it would if you expressed your delight by involving your emotions too.
So, while you can convey your happiness or gratitude verbally, couple this with
an emotional response, and notice the difference it will make.
3. It's not your weight…
Men don't obsess
about a woman's weight nearly as much as women do. Forget what you see on TV
and in movies. What men notice is how a woman's weight directly affects her
outlook on life.
So why do men
usually like thin women? Because when a woman feels great about her body, she
glows. She dresses in order to draw attention to herself. Whereas women that
are self conscious about their weight, often dress in a way that appears as
though they are attempting to hide.
Remember this, when a man looks at you, he is hard wired
to like your curves. Yes, I do know that some men won't look at any woman that
weighs more than 100 pounds (45 KG), but can you imagine being with that type of
guy? Please trust me when I tell you that as a woman, you are designed in such
a way that men can't help but look at you. Please stop trying to be the perfect
weight. The attitude and confidence a woman exhibits are what men notice more
than what she actually weighs.
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