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Get Back With Your Ex Girlfriend - Why You Can't Be The Guy Who Never ForgetsAuthor: Chris Tyler
There are tons of mistakes that a man can make if he is trying to get back with an ex girlfriend and you really don't want to make too many of these mistakes if you are going to stand any kind of a real chance to reconcile with the woman you love. One of the mistakes that I see happen all of the time and most men don't even realize that it is a mistake is when they are the guy who never forgets. What I really mean by this is, they bring up the past all of the time and that actually makes it harder for them to have a chance of having a future with their ex girlfriend. This is one mistake that you really don't want to make if you are going to be able to have a future with her.
Why You Can't Be That Way -
Most men are going to assume that it is a good idea to constantly remind her of the past, back when they were in a relationship and it is easy to understand why that is. You would assume that the more you make her think of you and her being a couple, the more likely it is that she is going to want to go back to being one. Here is the thing with that, though: When you are constantly bringing up the past, you make it seem like a guy who only lives in the past and most women are not attracted to that. Some are, but most are not.
Not only that, but you would also have to realize that the past also includes those times when your ex girlfriend was not that happy and that is something that you don't want to remind her of. If you keep on bringing up those past memories, chances are she is also going to remember the arguments and all of the other things that made her want to break up with you.
Show Her a Better Future -
Rather than bringing up the past all of the time with your ex girlfriend, you will do yourself a lot of good if you can focus on showing your ex girlfriend that the future will be good if she gets back with you. Don't focus on what you used to do with one another, focus on the things that you could do if you get back together with her. When you can make your ex girlfriend feel like the past is behind you and that you can make her future much better if she chooses to be with you, then you have a really good shot at being able to reconcile with her.
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