Get him to appreciate you more

Get him to appreciate you more How To Get Him To Appreciate What You Do For Him So, let's just follow up on the above, and talk about how to get a man to appreciate all you do. First, it's REALLY important for you to check in with yourself to find out why you do what you do. For a man to become and stay attracted, your energy has to sparkle. That's what Feminine Grace is all about. And the only way your energy can sparkle is for you to be true to yourself. If you're doing things JUST to attract a man, or JUST to keep him, then it will not show up in your energy. Actually, it will cause your energy to be diminished, a little or a lot, depending on how much you resent having to do whatever it is you're doing. First, when you do get a compliment or any kind of appreciation, be sure and let him know how good it feels when he tells you those things. And sealing it with a sexy kiss or body rub will etch it more deeply into his consciousness. 1) If there's something you already do that you'd like acknowledged: Ask him, "Do you like it when _______?" If he says yes, then tell him you weren't sure, and that it would make it even more enjoyable for you if he'd let you know he's aware that you've done it, and that he appreciates. And tell him you'll do the same, by letting him know what you appreciate about what he does. Then, make it a game so you both get into it. Try to outdo each other with your offers of appreciation. And don't forget that there are a lot of ways you can do that in the bedroom. 2) If there's something you used to do, but have quit: Ask him, "Do you remember when I used to __________? I was thinking about that recently and realized that I quit doing it because I didn't think you liked it." If was something you know he did like, this will get his attention. Saying it this way, rather than, "I quit because you never appreciated what I was doing..." will shut him down to what you're trying to communicate to him. Once you have a conversation about this, when he does appreciate you or your efforts, let him know how happy it makes you. The most important point I want to make is to think about the consequences of how you say things before you say them. There's almost always a better way.

The Power Of Appreciation - An Essential Life Ingredient

Author: Madonna Jeffries

Many people are unaware of the power contained within us to harness a unique force known as the power of appreciation. The power of appreciation enables us to channel our inner most thoughts to overcome any obstacle in our way. We can unleash the power of appreciation so that our lives are free of fear, worry and anxiety. Our lives will become satisfying and the rewards we seek will be manifested and we will start to enjoy every moment of our existence.

Are you getting excited about knowing how to introduce the power of appreciation into your own life? If the answer is a resounding 'Yes!' then you should definitely read on.

In reality all of us already possess the power of appreciation but as part of our 'growing up' most of us have been taught to concentrate our thoughts on how we go about stopping bad things happening to us. With our focus on the negative area of life we have little life energy left to direct towards attracting the good things into our lives.

The art of being able to fully appreciate the benefits of the power of appreciation begins when we cast away the negativity in our lives, that is, we purposefully stop worrying about all the aspects of our existence that causes us grief. We stop being driven by our desire to improve our floundering personal relationships, our poor financial position and other negative situations.

If we actively direct our mind to focus on the positive aspects of our lives, such as the simple acceptance that we live in a safe environment or own a car that works, can put our mind into the state that it needs to be in for the power of appreciation to be called into action. Look at the positive aspect of your situations rather than the negative and once it becomes second nature, and it will if you foster the concept, you will begin to enjoy the truly magical benefits in your life.

You will become more content with your own being and purpose as well as becoming more understanding of others and their individual circumstances and problems.

At this point it is important to understand that it is impossible to switch on and off this force because it should be seen as a constant feature in our way of life more than the occasional tool to help us when we need support. The key to the power of appreciation is to begin to truly incorporate the concept into our everyday mind set.

Don't let the simplicity of the power of appreciation fool you, as once embraced it will completely change your life and its direction in the most positive ways imaginable.

Remember, the quality of your life is linked directly to the degree of your commitment to accepting that the power of appreciation is the governing force in your life. You have two distinct options available to you, firstly, you choose to feel depressed and unhappy that your life is not a level you want it to be at. Or secondly, as a contrast, you can choose to find something that you are content and appreciative about and in doing so activate the power of appreciation.

How can you find something to appreciate?" This truly becomes a simple process if you just consider the following statement:

'I appreciate the food that I eat. I appreciate the sunshine. I appreciate the relationship that I am in. I appreciate the air that I breathe. I appreciate the house that I live in. I appreciate everything in my life.'

Well, you may say "The food that rich people eat is much better than the food that I eat" or "The house that my neighbor lives in is so much more luxuriant than mine", or "My relationship is dull and boring and lacks the excitement that we once had". Maybe this is the case, however, it is true only because you have chosen to perceive it that way. You have the ability, through the power of appreciation, to change your perception totally.

For example you are aware that in relation to what you think about the food you are eating there are millions of children through out the world who are starving and would be in awe of what you consider to be a mundane diet.

Think about the relationship that you are in. Do you recall that your partner is always there for you when you need advice and guidance and all the wonderful memories you have shared over the years? Think about how lovely is feels to have a hug from someone that you have experienced so much with, and then realize that there are so many people who don't have anyone in their life to share their memories with, not alone have the pleasure of a warm embrace.

Instead of focusing on where your relationship is lacking, try focusing on what is great in your relationship and appreciate what your partner has done for you and the wonderful things that you experience. By flipping your focus the Universe will provide you with more things in your relationship to be appreciative of.

Now, to activate the power of appreciation you have to purposely concentrate on holding that positive feeling of appreciation for as long as you possibly can. If you can keep the thought in the forefront of your mind on a regular basis (say 10 or 20 times each day) you are beginning to challenge the way you once thought and instead you are in a position to dramatically change your life for the better. Once it becomes a habit your life will never be the same. You will find yourself full of energy and happiness.

There are always positive and negative aspects to any circumstance in your life. So now, the choice is yours to either focus on the negativities or choose to appreciate the positive aspect of what you have and who you are. By changing your focus you will find a dramatic lift in the quality of your life. As I said earlier don't let simplicity of this idea fool you, practice invoking the power of appreciation and you will find that miracles will soon begin to occur in your life.

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