Four Hot Signs Of AttractionAuthor: Pick Up Guide
In today's society, beauty, physical attraction, and sexuality are all commonly misunderstood as some transcendent inevitable fact; falsely interlocking the three makes it seem doubly true that in order to initiate attraction between a man and a woman, both sexes should be beautiful to be sexual.
That of course is not true at all. The definitions of beautiful, attraction, and sexual constantly change to serve the social order, and the connection between the three ideas is a recent invention.
Some psychologists contend that the disparity among the concepts of beauty, attractions, and sexuality is based on the premise that both sexes are inclined to physical or sexual attraction because women are able to view men just as men view women, as subjects for sexual and aesthetic evaluation.
In a survey conducted by an "evolutionary psychologist," from 10,000 individuals who were interviewed, it was found out that men have high-regards to physical attraction in their budding sexual mates, while women attach importance to prominence, goals, and monetary sources.
No wonder why most cases of attraction are all based on sexuality and physical attributes. This is because men and women would rather have their significant others physically and sexually capable of giving them their necessities.
For instance, men are attracted to women who look good because this indicates excellent vigor and the capacity to produce offspring babies. On the other hand, women are attracted to men who look good because this indicates abundance in financial resources, in which, the ability to provide the basic necessities to their children is generated.
The point here is that both men and women may have their own basis for attraction but everything is generally focused on the physical and material aspects. This is because attraction is associated with the fact that the physical attributes motivate that part of the brain known as the "hypothalamus" that will produce different kinds of reactions from the body such as sexual arousal, increased heart rate, and perspiration.
So the question now is: How can the individual identify the clear signs of attraction?
There are many probable actions that might suggest attraction. However, the real signs include but not limited to the following:
1. Visual contact
This is when both a man and a woman gazed upon each other and instantly prolonged the moment as they look at each other longer than the typical glance.
Both are completely immersed on each other's anecdote, and every word will impress them both. All eyes are glued to each other that send a message that they are drawn to each other.
Preening means to adorn oneself carefully or to groom oneself with particular attention to details. Hence, attraction sets in when both would try to instantly make a quick fix and conquer each other's space.
Teasing could have been the more appropriate term for it. This is when both sexes converse in a relaxed manner, with bodily actions associated to their thoughts and feelings, where, most often than not, sexual tensions and arousal are the primary upshots.
4. Physical contact
This is when a woman leans to wards the man and places a modest hand on his hand or arm. In this way, the woman is trying to tell the other person that she is attracted to him and that she is open to possibilities that involve the concerned person.
All of these things are boiled down to the fact that the asymmetry of the correlation among beauty, attraction, and sexuality that tells both men and women lies on how they both perceive each other's physical attributes. This is inevitable because the lack of it will definitely keep them sexually estranged.
Attraction is generally focused on imagery that is exclusively on the physical attributes of both men and women, where the society has created a very important role. This goes to show that the signs of attraction indicate the clear identification of desirability.
Given all that, both men and women should make the choice, by and large, to take each other as human beings first and not just mere sexual objects.
It should be well noted that these signs of attraction may be well confined on the premise that both men and women send out these signs as a ticket to conquer each other's space so as to start the "getting-to-know-each-other" stage.
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Interpreting Body Language in Men For Signs of AttractionAuthor: KristHiles
Learning to read men's body language for signs of attraction is your best tool in your hunt for the one man that can make you happy for the rest of your life. It's a combination of eye contact, facial expressions, posture and physical contact that he will use to express his level of attraction or lack of it.
What are his eyes saying to you?
The eyes are the window to the soul and will send many non-verbal communications signals if you pay attention to them. Once you get good at interpreting what his eyes are telling you it will become easy for you to judge what his true feeling for you are. His facial expressions can reveal what he is thinking. There are a multitude of unconscious signals that men display that convey what they are feeling. Use the fleeting subtle facial expressions that men display to your advantage. Learn to read them and you will be ahead of the game..
Peacocks display their tail feathers, a bull elk will show off his huge antlers and men will assume a certain posture all in the effort to attract the female of their choosing. What all the species, including men, are doing is saying "hey look at me, I'm a healthy, fit male and a prime candidate for mating. When a man sees a woman that he's attracted to he will take a posture that will make him look as masculine and domineering as possible. Watch for it.
Physical contact, or the lack of it, is part of the body language humans use. How we touch each other is a strong indication of what we are feeling. Any kind of non-aggressive physical contact is a sign of bonding, but it's how he touches you that tells how much attraction he feels for you. Eye contact, facial expressions, posture and physical contact are all body language signals that you can use for interpreting his level of interest in you.
Understanding male body language can be a huge asset, but don't fall into the trap of focusing so much on reading his body language that you forget to actually interact with him We all have the natural ability to read body language, after all it is over 90% of how we communicate, so let your natural instincts take over. If you feel he's attracted to you then there's a very good chance that he is, relax and enjoy yourself instead of analyzing every little detail.
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