Getting Your Boyfriend To Pop The QuestionAuthor: W. Williams
As a matter of fact there is! by now you know that men are totally different creatures than women. You also know that the way a man thinks can make it feel like your relationship is not going in the direction you want to take it. You might even fear the passing of time, so what's the hold up?
Does he love me enough to commit or not?
A guy needs to feel a certain way before proceeding with this kind of commitment. It's instinct, just like women have, but both genders share completely different primal feelings that motivates them.
Once you understand how to make him feel a certain way about you, then he will become self motivated in asking you to marry him.
To get your boyfriend to propose to you, you need to understand that guys can have roadblocks that prevent them from going any further once they get this serious into a relationship.
They can fear losing their sense of 'self', their identity, having to sacrifice everything that makes them who they are, and yes.. they can fear the financial responsibility of sharing a life together and one day having children.
Your destiny as a woman might be to fulfill your place on earth with a wonderful husband, a happy marriage and beautiful children together. However, a man's destiny is to provide for
himself, his family and maybe even beyond.
If he feels that you might not be a good fit for this picture, or that he can't fulfill his commitment, you may not be able to get your boyfriend to propose to you just yet, but not all hope is lost.
As a guy, he won't be able to put into plain English how he's feeling. These are subconscious thoughts or "gut feelings". It may simply be triggered by certain things you say that make him uncomfortable that can cause an internal pressure within him.
This can be corrected and you can create a relaxed environment for him so that there is no doubt in his mind that you are the one, and that commitment to you would be nothing less than bliss.
How to get your boyfriend to propose is a matter of understanding how he really feels inside, and how to trigger good, emotional thoughts about settling down. You can do this!
Get your boyfriend to propose!
Can I Persuade My Boyfriend to Marry Me? Tips to Get Him to Want to CommitAuthor: Gillian Reynolds
Can I persuade my boyfriend to marry me? Any woman asking that question is obviously in a relationship that isn't headed in the direction she wants. If that woman is you, it's understandable why you'd be feeling frustrated and confused. Meeting a man, falling in love with him and coming to the realization that he's your future life partner is all very magical. It's hard though if he seems to be on a different wavelength than you are. Giving up and just walking away in pursuit of someone who sees the value in marrying you isn't possible so you need to find a way to change your current situation. You can do that. You can persuade your boyfriend to crave a commitment as strongly as you do.
There are obviously many reasons why men don't want to marry. They range from being fearful of having to cut ties with their friends to being hesitant because they were the product of a divorced family. Regardless of what the reasoning is there is a solution to move a man past that resistance. It begins with understanding that if you handle this situation incorrectly it will very quickly turn into a tug-o-war. You'll push for a commitment, and he'll pull back. To him it will become a challenge and he'll dig his heels in on his position. You don't want that to happen so don't ever push again. There are much better ways.
Typically what happens in any relationship is the couple settles into a routine of comfort. Perhaps they live together once they decide they love each other or if that's not the case, they spend every free moment together. Essentially, even though there is no commitment or ring, they are living their lives as if they were married already. If you can see this happening in your relationship, it's part of the problem. You have to take control and pull back a bit to show your boyfriend that unless a true and real commitment is made, you're not going to continue to act like his wife.
Don't be cruel about this and there's absolutely no reason to make a big announcement regarding your intentions. If you tell your boyfriend that you'll be pulling away from him emotionally because you want a commitment, he's not going to react at all. You have to be smarter than that. Instead, just stop being as attentive as you've been and become increasingly less available. If he sees that you're beginning to live your life more on your own, he'll question his position on commitment. The hint of you moving on and starting a life without him may just be what it takes to change his mind.
There are specific things that any woman can say and do that will make her man want to commit to her. If you believe that he is the man you are destined to be with there are things you can do right now that will make him feel exactly the same way about you.
You don't have to wait for him to decide whether or not he's ready to commit to you. If you are tired of putting your dreams on hold because he's commitment phobic, there are things you can do to make him want to marry you now. Learn right now what you need to do to make him fall to his knees and beg you to marry him.